Re: Adoption

Ellen D. Solomon (esolomon@torah.org)
Wed, 13 Aug 1997 14:06:48 -0400 (EDT)

Akiva Miller wrote:
<< There have been several posts recently about Jewish people who adopt
non-Jewish children. I have heard that the reason they do this is that
Jewish orphans are frequently of uncertain parentage, and so they will have
a difficult time getting married, because anyone they meet could
potentially be a forbidden relative. In contrast, when a non-Jewish child
converts to Judaism, his family ties are severed; having no relatives, he
is free to marry any Jew. >>

Actually, I have only heard the opposite - it's a great miztvah to adopt a
Jewish child because, as Akiva says later, we should take care of Jewish
orphans as much as possible. The problem actually is that there aren't
many Jewish babies put up for adoption, certainly not as many as potential
Jewish adoptive parents.

The one issue I have heard of regarding adoption of Jewish children is
mamzeirut (illegitimacy). If the child was conceived through an adulterous
relationship, then the child would be forbidden to many other Jews. I
think that adoptive parents investigate this possibility first. If there
were such a problem, my guess is that it would be beneficial to obscure the
child's background so that he/she would not be subjected to difficulty
marrying with such a status.